David Brooks' short talk at last month's TED conference is quintessential David Brooks. If you read his column in the Times, you'll recognize his themes and concerns right away. It's a bit preachy, sure. But it will get you thinking, maybe for a few minutes, about which self is winning out in your life -- the self who craves success, builds a great résumé, and almost invariably bruises others -- family, friends and strangers -- along the way. Or the self "who seeks connection, community, love — the values that make for a great eulogy." Just a little food for thought.