Paulo Coelho on How to Handle the Fear of Failure

The road to suc­cess runs right through fail­ure. It’s an idea that’s get­ting a lot of atten­tion late­ly. Ear­li­er this month, the Berghs School of Com­mu­ni­ca­tion in Stock­holm orga­nized an exhi­bi­tion around the whole premise that “suc­cess nev­er hap­pens with­out tak­ing risks. And risks are what you’re capa­ble of tak­ing when you over­come the fear of fail­ing.” But how to do that? How to take that leap? The exhi­bi­tion put that ques­tion to artists and thinkers who know suc­cess in a very inti­mate way. (See full list on Brain­Pick­ings here.) That includes Paulo Coel­ho, the author of The Alchemist, a book that has sold 65 mil­lion copies across 150 coun­tries, and he had this to say:

I’m nev­er par­a­lyzed by my fear of fail­ure… I say “Ok, I’m doing my best… ” And, from the moment that I can say that I’m doing my best … I sit down, I breathe, and I say “I put all of my love into it, I did it with all my heart.” … And whether they like [the book] or not is irrel­e­vant, because I like it. I’m com­mit­ted to the thing that I did. And so far nobody has crit­i­cized or refused it. When you put love and enthu­si­asm into your work, even if peo­ple don’t see it, they know it’s there, that you did this with all of your body and soul, so that is what I encour­age you to do.

It’s a good thought, which gets pur­sued on a par­al­lel track by Tim Har­ford. In 2005, Har­ford wrote the best­selling book, The Under­cov­er Econ­o­mist, and now he returns with Adapt: Why Suc­cess Always Starts with Fail­ure. Speak­ing yes­ter­day on KQED in San Fran­cis­co, the writer, some­times likened to Mal­colm Glad­well, talked about the impor­tance of exper­i­men­ta­tion, tak­ing cal­cu­lat­ed risks, and cre­at­ing room for fail­ure, some­thing that mat­ters as much to indi­vid­u­als as it does to cor­po­ra­tions or nations try­ing to solve dif­fi­cult prob­lems. You can lis­ten to the full inter­view here.

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  • Guest156 says:

    I always hear both good and bad things about Coel­ho. I’ve nev­er read any of his books. But the things that he writes as colum­nist in Brazil­ian’s G1 news site makes me want to puke. Com­plete mys­ti­cal bull­shit.

  • Ana says:

    Yes Guest156! I’m Brazil­ian and I know how he did his career by mar­ket­ing his image. He is not a writer he is a self-help author. The num­bers are more impor­tant than the work for some peo­ple.
    We have so many great nov­el­ists!
    What a shame that this man is being the rep­re­sen­ta­tive of Brazil­ian lit­er­a­ture when what he do has no lit­er­ary val­ue what­so­ev­er.
     

  • Ana says:

    “When you put love and enthu­si­asm into your work, even if peo­ple don’t see it, they know it’s there, ”
    LOL
    So many artists and writ­ers that are not known even putting all their love and enthu­si­asm in their work. 
    Some­times sad­ness and hate can trig­ger great texts.

  • Ana says:

    “When you put love and enthu­si­asm into your work, even if peo­ple don’t see it, they know it’s there, ”
    LOL
    So many artists and writ­ers that are not known even putting all their love and enthu­si­asm in their work. 
    Some­times sad­ness and hate can trig­ger great texts.

  • Ana says:

    “When you put love and enthu­si­asm into your work, even if peo­ple don’t see it, they know it’s there, ”
    LOL
    So many artists and writ­ers that are not known even putting all their love and enthu­si­asm in their work. 
    Some­times sad­ness and hate can trig­ger great texts.

  • Ana says:

    Oh No! Was it you Dan who wrote it? :( 
    I wrote a post about Tony Judt and used your tran­scrip­tion.
    http://hellaheaven-ana.blogspot.com/2011/05/tony-judt-and-future-of-our-youth-power.html
    Well, you did­n’t say you like him or not. You just report­ed so I’ll take that as a “I don’t like.”; hehe
    Maybe I’ll write about him because i hate to answer “Are you Brazil­ian? what do you think about Paulo Coel­ho?”
    I’ll say: “read the post at my blog.” lol

  • Brendan Mccall says:

    This top­ic of the rela­tion between fail­ure & suc­cess is one that I have been fas­ci­nat­ed by, and par­tic­i­pat­ing in my work with, for a num­ber of years now.  

    I dis­agree with Mr. Coelho´s the­sis, that if one puts in “enough love and enthu­si­asm” into one´s work (such as writ­ing), that oth­ers will inher­ent­ly pick up on that, and suc­cess will hap­pen.  Many writ­ers and artists of every dis­ci­pline have made incred­i­ble sac­ri­fices for their work, and are nev­er heard, seen, or known.  This doesn´t mean that they are “not try­ing hard enough”, or that they have not invest­ed enough of them­selves into the work.

    Also, I think it is impor­tant to dis­tin­guish between the doubts and self-crit­i­cisms one gives oneself–the “fear of fail­ure” allud­ed to in the begin­ning of Coelho´s statement–with actu­al fail­ure from real­i­ty (such as not get­ting a call­back audi­tion, not get­ting the grant, get­ting your man­u­script reject­ed, and so on).  One is lim­it­ed in how we influ­ence oth­ers in the world, par­tic­u­lar­ly in terms of gain­ing resources.  We can­not “make” a foun­da­tion sup­port our lat­est sculp­ture through a grant, nor can we “make” a pro­duc­er back our play or film.  How­ev­er, we CAN change our out­look and per­spec­tive in terms of how we write, sculpt, com­pose, chore­o­graph, and cre­ate.  Being free of those judges is essen­tial to hav­ing a healthy, cre­ative life.

    While being one´s own best advo­cate in the cre­ative process is not a guar­an­tee of suc­cess, it does mean that one can be sat­is­fied with one´s work, and can remain hope­ful and resource­ful to try­ing again.  I have yet to meet a writer who has had it easy from page one, and who has had every­thing they have writ­ten pub­lished.  Nor have I met an actor who has booked every sin­gle role they have audi­tioned for.  Or a chore­o­g­ra­ph­er whose work has been received with praise since word Go.  

    Seri­ous artists and professionals–in oth­er words, those that con­sid­er their cre­ative work more than a “hob­by” or an inter­est, but some­thing much deep­er, more life-consuming–recognize that there will be fail­ures, set­backs, obsta­cles, and dis­ap­point­ments.  And who knows when these will arise, when they will appear, or how thor­ough the dam­age will be.  But if one is seri­ous­ly ded­i­cat­ed to their work, do not be dis­cour­aged.  Try again.  And again.  And again.  Until you reach the suc­cess that you seek.  That could be sub­mit­ting your man­u­script to anoth­er pub­lish­er.  Or self-pub­lish­ing.  Or turn­ing the nov­el into a play.  Who knows.  But keep try­ing.  Keep try­ing.

    Bren­dan McCall
    Founder & Artis­tic Direc­tor
    Ensem­ble Free The­ater Nor­way
    http://www.ensemblefreetheaternorway.com

  • Alicia says:

    As with Bren­dan, I’ve been fas­ci­nat­ed by “fail­ure” ever since I start­ed writ­ing about artists more than 20 years ago. I always ask artists: What can we learn from you? More often than not, they say: Don’t be afraid to take risks and to fail. I’ve come to love that answer, and even though I am not an artist, after all these years, I have learned to embrace fail­ure as a step­ping stone to dis­cov­ery. I wrote about “fail­ure” and “risk tak­ing” recent­ly. The rest of y’all might be inter­est­ed to hear anoth­er artist’s take on the same sub­ject: http://www.najp.org/articles/2011/01/embracing-the-non-knowing.html

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