SevÂerÂal years ago, an interÂviewÂer asked Stephen Fry to look backÂward — to reflect on his life and answer this quesÂtion, “What do you wish you had known when you were 18”? What lessons would you draw in hindÂsight? Some of his answers includÂed:
- Don’t set goals for yourÂself, parÂticÂuÂlarÂly mateÂrÂiÂal ones. They’re disÂasÂtrous and will keep you from becomÂing who you realÂly are.
- Keep your ego in check. You’ll be betÂter liked, and more opporÂtuÂniÂties will come your way.
- Get outÂside your comÂfort zone by travÂelÂing to disÂtant lands and readÂing books in a serendipÂiÂtous way.
- Be a givÂer, not a takÂer. It’s more rewardÂing.
In the clip above, Gay Byrne, a broadÂcastÂer with RTÉ, now asks Fry to look forÂward and answer anothÂer quesÂtion: SupÂpose there is a God, and you arrive at the Pearly Gates, what would you say to him, her or it? Fry, an avowed secÂuÂlar humanÂist, isn’t throwÂing God any softÂballs: Why creÂate a world where kids have bone canÂcer? Why creÂate insects that burÂrow into chilÂdren’s eyes and renÂder them blind? Why creÂate a world with so much pain, misÂery and injusÂtice in it? As he answers these quesÂtions, and conÂcludes that such a God (were it to exist) would be nothÂing short of maniÂaÂcal, Byrne’s face conÂtorts, revealÂing his disÂcomÂfort. You can watch othÂer scenes from the interÂview here, and catch Fry’s aniÂmatÂed primers on secÂuÂlar humanÂism here.
RelatÂed ConÂtent:
Stephen Fry: What I Wish I Knew When I Was 18
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