
Image by the EuroÂpean GradÂuÂate School, via WikiÂmeÂdia ComÂmons
The most sucÂcessÂful outÂlaws live by a code, and in many ways John PerÂry BarÂlow, founder of the ElecÂtronÂic FreeÂdom FounÂdaÂtion, Wyoming ranchÂer, and erstÂwhile songÂwriter for the GrateÂful Dead—who died on WednesÂday at the age of 70—was an archeÂtypÂal AmerÂiÂcan outÂlaw all of his life. He might have worn a white hat, so to speak, but he had no use for the govÂernÂment telling him what to do. And his charisÂmatÂic defense of unfetÂtered interÂnet libÂerÂty inspired a new genÂerÂaÂtion of hackÂers and activists, includÂing a 12-year-old Aaron Swartz, who saw BarÂlow speak at his midÂdle school and left the classÂroom changed.
Few peoÂple get to leave as lastÂing a legaÂcy as BarÂlow, even had he not pioÂneered earÂly cyberÂculÂture, penÂning the “DecÂlaÂraÂtion of IndeÂpenÂdence of the InterÂnet,” a techo-utopiÂan docÂuÂment that conÂtinÂues to influÂence proÂpoÂnents of open access and free inforÂmaÂtion. He introÂduced the GrateÂful Dead to Dr. TimÂoÂthy Leary, under whose guidÂance BarÂlow began experÂiÂmentÂing with LSD in colÂlege. His creÂative and perÂsonÂal relaÂtionÂship with the Dead’s Bob Weir stretchÂes back to their high school days in ColÂorado, and he became an unofÂfiÂcial memÂber of the band and its “junior lyriÂcist,” as he put it (after Robert Hunter).
“John had a way of takÂing life’s most difÂfiÂcult things and framÂing them as chalÂlenges, thereÂfore advenÂtures,” wrote Weir in a sucÂcinctÂly poignant TwitÂter euloÂgy for his friend. We might think of BarÂlow’s code, which he laid out in a list he called the “25 PrinÂciÂples of Adult BehavÂior,” as a series of instrucÂtions for turnÂing life’s difÂfiÂculÂties into chalÂlenges, an advenÂturÂous reframÂing of what it means to grow up. For BarÂlow, that meant defyÂing authorÂiÂty when it imposed arbiÂtrary barÂriÂers and proÂpriÂetary rules on the once-wild-open spaces of the interÂnet.
But being a grown-up also meant acceptÂing full responÂsiÂbilÂiÂty for one’s behavÂior, life’s purÂpose, and the ethÂiÂcal treatÂment of oneÂself and othÂers. See his list below, notable not so much for its origÂiÂnalÂiÂty but for its plainÂspoÂken reminder of the simÂple, shared wisÂdom that gets drowned in the assaultive noise of modÂern life. Such uncomÂpliÂcatÂed ideÂalÂism was at the cenÂter of Perry’s life and work.
1. Be patient. No matÂter what.
2. Don’t badÂmouth: Assign responÂsiÂbilÂiÂty, not blame. Say nothÂing of anothÂer you wouldn’t say to him.
3. NevÂer assume the motives of othÂers are, to them, less noble than yours are to you.
4. Expand your sense of the posÂsiÂble.
5. Don’t trouÂble yourÂself with matÂters you truÂly canÂnot change.
6. Expect no more of anyÂone than you can delivÂer yourÂself.
7. TolÂerÂate ambiÂguÂiÂty.
8. Laugh at yourÂself freÂquentÂly.
9. ConÂcern yourÂself with what is right rather than who is right.
10. NevÂer forÂget that, no matÂter how cerÂtain, you might be wrong.
11. Give up blood sports.
12. RememÂber that your life belongs to othÂers as well. Don’t risk it frivÂoÂlousÂly.
13. NevÂer lie to anyÂone for any reaÂson. (Lies of omisÂsion are someÂtimes exempt.)
14. Learn the needs of those around you and respect them.
15. Avoid the purÂsuit of hapÂpiÂness. Seek to define your misÂsion and purÂsue that.
16. Reduce your use of the first perÂsonÂal proÂnoun.
17. Praise at least as often as you disÂparÂage.
18. Admit your errors freely and soon.
19. Become less susÂpiÂcious of joy.
20. UnderÂstand humilÂiÂty.
21. RememÂber that love forÂgives everyÂthing.
22. FosÂter digÂniÂty.
23. Live memÂoÂrably.
24. Love yourÂself.
25. Endure.
BarÂlow the “cowÂboy, poet, romanÂtic, famÂiÂly man, philosoÂpher, and ultiÂmateÂly, the bard of the digÂiÂtal revolution”—as Stephen Levy describes him at Wired—“became a great explainÂer” of the posÂsiÂbilÂiÂties inherÂent in new media. He watched the interÂnet become a far darkÂer place than it had ever been in the 90s, a place where govÂernÂments conÂduct cyberÂwars and impose cenÂsorÂship and barÂriÂers to access; where bad actors of all kinds manipÂuÂlate, threatÂen, and intimÂiÂdate.
But BarÂlow stood by his vision, of “a world that all may enter withÂout privÂiÂlege or prejÂuÂdice accordÂed by race, ecoÂnomÂic powÂer, milÂiÂtary force, or staÂtion of birth… a world where anyÂone, anyÂwhere may express his or her beliefs, no matÂter how sinÂguÂlar, withÂout fear of being coerced into silence or conÂforÂmiÂty.”
This may sound naĂŻve, yet as Cindy Cohn writes in EFF’s obitÂuÂary for its founder, BarÂlow “knew that new techÂnolÂoÂgy could creÂate and empowÂer evil as much as it could creÂate and empowÂer good. He made a conÂscious deciÂsion to move toward the latÂter.” His 25-point code urges us to do the same.
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Josh Jones is a writer and musiÂcian based in Durham, NC. FolÂlow him at @jdmagness



