DurÂing the 1960s, George CarÂlin had someÂthing of an epiphany. ConÂfrontÂed by the counÂterÂculÂture, the young comeÂdiÂan realÂized that he wasÂn’t stayÂing true to himÂself — that he was tryÂing to be DanÂny Kaye, a very mainÂstream star, when he was realÂly an outÂlaw and a rebel at heart. (Watch him on The Tonight Show in 1966). EvenÂtuÂalÂly, CarÂlin learned “not to give a shit,” to break with milÂqueÂtoast conÂvenÂtions that restrained othÂer comeÂdiÂans, and that’s when his comÂic genius bloomed. Note that some of CarÂlin’s comÂments here are … not surÂprisÂingÂly … not safe for work.
Steve Jobs, anothÂer child of the counÂterÂculÂture, didÂn’t learn CarÂlin’s lesÂson over time. As WalÂter IsaacÂson makes clear in his new biogÂraÂphy, Jobs underÂstood from the beginÂning that excelÂlence is rarely achieved by walkÂing down the path of conÂforÂmiÂty. In a 1995 interÂview, Jobs boiled down his basic approach to life. The masÂterÂmind behind the legÂendary Think DifÂferÂent teleÂviÂsion camÂpaign (watch the verÂsion narÂratÂed by Jobs himÂself) said:
When you grow up, you tend to get told the world is the way it is, and your life is just to live your life inside the world. Try not to bash into the walls too much. Try to have a nice famÂiÂly, have fun, save a litÂtle monÂey.
That’s a very limÂitÂed life. Life can be much broadÂer once you disÂcovÂer one simÂple fact: EveryÂthing around you that you call life was made up by peoÂple that were no smarter than you and you can change it, you can influÂence it, you can build your own things that othÂer peoÂple can use. Once you learn that, you’ll nevÂer be the same again.
You can find more pearls of wisÂdom from Jobs over at BrainÂPickÂings, and we’ll leave you below with more culÂturÂal figÂures medÂiÂtatÂing on life:
Stephen Fry: What I Wish I Had Known When I Was 18
Paulo CoelÂho: SucÂcess NevÂer HapÂpens WithÂout TakÂing Risks
One of the Biggest Risks is Being Too CauÂtious…
Bono Tells GradÂuÂates “Pick a Fight, Get in It” (2004)
Conan O’Brien: Through DisÂapÂpointÂment You Can Gain ClarÂiÂty
J.K. RowlÂing Tells HarÂvard GradÂuÂates What They Need to Know
