RegÂuÂlar readÂers of Open CulÂture know us to gush over our favorite celebriÂty couÂples now and then: John and Yoko, Jean-Paul and Simone, FriÂda and Diego…. Not your usuÂal tabloid fare, but the juicy details of these amorous partÂners’ lives also hapÂpen to interÂsect with some of our favorite art, music and litÂerÂaÂture. One culÂturÂal powÂer couÂple we haven’t covÂered much, surÂprisÂingÂly, well deserves the “powÂer” adjecÂtive: Lou Reed and LauÂrie AnderÂson, two perÂsonÂalÂiÂties whose influÂence on the art and music of the last sevÂerÂal decades can hardÂly be overÂstatÂed.
Has Reed’s repÂuÂtaÂtion at times been inflatÂed, and Anderson’s underÂplayed? Maybe. She doesn’t get nearÂly enough credÂit for the witÂty, proÂfound, movÂing work she’s done, year after year (with one lengthy hiaÂtus) since the 70s. Reed’s career since the 70s conÂsistÂed of more missÂes than hits. But put them togethÂer (in 1992) and you get a harÂmoÂnious meetÂing of Reed’s raw, gut-levÂel asserÂtions and Anderson’s curiÂous, playÂful conÂcepts.
WitÂness their perÂsonÂal strength togethÂer in the CharÂlie Rose excerpt at the top of the post. Reed, who was often a difÂfiÂcult interÂview subÂject, to put it mildÂly, and who gained a repÂuÂtaÂtion as a bruÂtalÂly unpleasÂant, abuÂsive rock and roll diva (immorÂtalÂized lovÂingÂly in Bowie’s “Queen Bitch”), comes off in this sit-down with AnderÂson as almost warm and fuzzy. Did she make him want to be a betÂter perÂson? I don’t know. But Anderson’s short obitÂuÂary after his 2013 death rememÂbered Reed as a “prince and fightÂer,” her longer obit as a “genÂerÂous” soul who enjoyed butÂterÂfly huntÂing, medÂiÂtaÂtion, and kayakÂing. No reaÂson he wasn’t all those things too.
When it came to music, Reed could pull his partÂner into the orbit of his sweet R&B songcraft, as in their duet of “Hang on to Your EmoÂtions,” furÂther up, and she could pull him out of it—like John Cale and Nico had done in the VelÂvet Underground—and into the avant-garde drone of her experÂiÂmenÂtal scene (as above in the pair’s colÂlabÂoÂraÂtion with comÂposÂer and saxÂoÂphonÂist John Zorn). Just this past Spring, in one of the most touchÂing musiÂcal tribÂutes I’ve ever seen, AnderÂson recreÂatÂed Reed’s abraÂsive screw-you to his record label, MetÂal Machine Music, as a conÂcepÂtuÂal art piece called Drones, leanÂing sevÂerÂal of his guiÂtars against sevÂerÂal fulÂly-cranked vinÂtage amps, letÂting the feedÂback ring out for five days straight.
None of us can be Lou Reed and LauÂrie AnderÂson; every couÂple is hapÂpy, or unhapÂpy, in their own way. But what, in the grand traÂdiÂtion of minÂing celebriÂty couÂple’s lives for advice, can we learn from them? I guess the overÂall message—as AnderÂson herÂself sugÂgestÂed in her Rock & Roll Hall of Fame accepÂtance speech for Reed (above, in shaky audiÂence video)—is this: keep it simÂple. Kansas State EngÂlish ProÂfesÂsor Philip Nel points out Anderson’s “wise… thoughtÂful” words on the subÂject of livÂing well, delivÂered in her speech at the 8:55 mark:
I’m remindÂed also of the three rules we came up with, rules to live by. And I’m just going to tell you what they are because they come in realÂly handy. Because things hapÂpen so fast, it’s always good to have a few, like, watchÂwords to fall back on.
And the first one is: One. Don’t be afraid of anyÂone. Now, can you imagÂine livÂing your life afraid of no one? Two. Get a realÂly good bullÂshit detecÂtor. And three. Three is be realÂly, realÂly tenÂder. And with those three things, you don’t need anyÂthing else.
Can you imagÂine Lou Reed as “realÂly, realÂly tenÂder”? He cerÂtainÂly was in song, if not always in perÂson. In any case, these three rules seem to me to encapÂsuÂlate a perÂsonÂal phiÂlosÂoÂphy built solidÂly on fearÂless integriÂty and comÂpasÂsion. DifÂfiÂcult to live by, but well worth the effort. And because I’m now feelÂing super warm and fuzzy about Lou and LauÂrie, I’ll leave you with the short WNYC interÂview clip below, in which she reveals her favorite Lou Reed song, which he hapÂpened to write about her.
via Nine Kinds of Pie
RelatÂed ConÂtent:
LauÂrie Anderson’s Top 10 Books to Take to a Desert Island
An AniÂmatÂed Lou Reed Explains The VelÂvet Underground’s ArtisÂtic Goals, and Why The BeaÂtÂles Were “Garbage”
Lou Reed, John Cale & Nico Reunite, Play Acoustic VelÂvet UnderÂground Songs on French TV, 1972
Josh Jones is a writer and musiÂcian based in Durham, NC. FolÂlow him at @jdmagness